I was thinking about a client of mine when I found this quote which is so appropriate. I don’t know whether you’ve seen my co-therapist, Dafka. There’s a picture of him on my web site. Dafka, my client (who gave me permission to tell you this story) and the quote all go together.
About an hour before his scheduled appointment time, my client called to say that he wasn’t coming.
I, of course, asked him, “Why not?”.
His answer was, “I’m full of rage. I don’t want to see anyone. I don’t want to do anything. I’m just going to stay in my room.”
My response, “This is exactly the time when it would be most helpful for you to come in.”
His answer, “No. I’m not coming.”
I said, “Okay. I’ll miss you and Dafka will miss you.”
He questioned, “Dafka will miss me?”
My answer, “Of course Dafka will miss you.”
He said, “I’ll be there on time.”
And he was. Dafka greeted him affectionately and warmly with his tongue and his tail wagging vigorously.
We had a very good session, the three of us.
This is not my only client who finds comfort and reassurance from having Dafka in the room. If you would like to meet me and Dafka, please feel free to call me at 415-474-6707 or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I look forward to hearing from you.